Rehearse for Negotiation Success
In quizzing our clients as to why this is so, we hear the following three explanations.Typically, they say something like: “We’ve not really considered it, but it is a good idea”. Or, we often hear even experienced negotiators claiming: “I’d love to, but I simply don’t have the time.” Lastly, others express doubt that one can rehearse something so complex and unpredictable as negotiation.
Checking these explanations
People who explain their failure to rehearse have mostly been working on one or more of these assumptions:
- The normative assumption – they assume rehearsal is not normal
- The competency assumption – they assume they are ‘unconscious competents’
- The unreality assumption – that role-playing is not useful because the behaviour of the other party cannot be realistically simulated.
To overcome the first assumption, we usually only need to outline our value-adding experiences with training teams of some of the world’s most consciously aware negotiators to engage in extensive rehearsal before major negotiations.
To overcome the second and third assumptions usually requires the demonstration of a powerful technique we have developed to train negotiators utilizing psychodramatic methodology. We call this technique Active Role Reversal (ARR). In demonstrating the technique, we can easily show individuals and teams that a prerequisite for improving performance is that through ARR:
- They better understand their strengths and weaknesses as negotiators
- They develop more flexible and more extensive new skills, or more intensive use of already existing skills; and importantly
- They appreciate the need to prepare not only what they are going to say to the other party (the content), but also how and when they are going to say it (the process). This does not mean developing a script, but rather carefully strategizing several ‘what if’ options for managing the interaction.
In doing this by ARR (after we have ensured our client has done their research about the other party), we can show that in fact they do subconsciously have an adequate feel for how the other side is likely to react or initiate in even complex scenarios.
From our experience of over 40 years, we have found our Active Role Reversal (ARR) negotiation preparation technique to be to be the most effective.
Download our full e-book “Rehearse for Negotiation Success” here.
To discuss this article in more depth and explore developing your negotiation capabilities, please contact us via email or call +612 9299 9688.
Get in touch today so we can hear your needs.
ENS International (ENSI) provides negotiation consulting and training services helping people and organizations think and act differently to achieve more.
Negotiators gain the edge using proven ENSI influencing processes incorporating commercial psychology with a deep understanding of human behaviour. ENSI delivers through Consulting Services and In-House or Open Course training.
With over 60 Practitioners working within 75 countries we have a depth of experience across a diverse range of sectors.